Do you care about your own stability?
I was reading the December 2005 issue of Money Magazine, and I found this little statistic: "While 85% of golfers can tell you the score of their last round, only 52% know the current value of their portfolio." The wording is a little confusing, and I'm not sure if it implies: a) 52% of golfers know the current value of their portfolio, or b) 85% of golfers can tell you their last score, while 52% of investors can tell you their current portfolio value. Either way, it's an alarming statistic.
I cannot even fathom why more people don't care about their account balances. A friend of my parents told me earlier this year that she hadn't even looked into their brokerage account since the tech bubble burst. If their account hadn't been logged into for a few years, I can only assume their positions are stale by now - assuming they owned individual stocks, opposed to entirely mutual funds. To me, this says things like: You don't care about how much you're earning/losing. (Tip: before the end of the year, sell off your losing positions for a tax benefit. However, don't buy those specific positions back within a month. IRS rule) You may not even know if you're earning more than the current savings rate. Your money may even be better off in a CD or a savings account. (Side note: after a conversation about stocks to my parents friends, they're taking a little more proactive approach. Hey - at least they liquidated their tech losses.)
While I may be an extreme, not knowing one's financial stability is something I strongly disagree with.
Practically since I was old enough to understand the concept of money, my parents were adamant about telling my sister and me our financial situation (in case of emergencies). Although you may disagree with the "full disclosure" approach to your children, you may agree that knowing your own situation can't hurt and can probably only benefit yourself. At the very least, it can't hurt you.
I'm not saying to check your balances everyday, like I do. Again, I am a stock nerd. But at the very least look at your monthly statements. If there's no activity during the month, and the brokerage does not send you a statement, at least log in to get a general idea of how well you performed during the time period.
Have a great Thanksgiving!